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and flower, and early and late he will go to it with an ever fresh interest. Ponder what you thus read, and it will attune your heart to the Bible's God, it will stir the springs of conscience, and blend the stream of its all-fertilizing pages with your daily life and character.

SEVEN FAMILIAR LETTERS

TO

YOUNG MEN,

BY

DR J. G. HOLLAND

("TIMOTHY TITCOMB.")

LETTER I.

HOW TO START IN LIFE.

"In idle wishes fools supinely stay,

Be there a will, then wisdom finds a way."-Burns.

HE first great lesson a young man should learn is that he knows nothing; and the

earlier and more thoroughly this lesson is learned, the better it will be for his peace of mind and his success in life. A young man, bred at home and growing up in the light of parental admiration and fraternal pride, cannot readily understand how it is that every one else can be his equal in talent and acquisition. If, bred in the country, he seeks the life of the town, he will very early obtain an idea of his insignificance.

This is a critical period in his history. The result of his reasoning will decide his fate. If, at this time, he thoroughly comprehend, and in his soul admit and accept the fact, that he knows nothing and is nothing; if he bow to the conviction that his mind and his person are but ciphers among the significant and cleanly cut figures about him, and that whatever he is to be, and is to win, must be achieved by hard

work, there is abundant hope of him. If, on the contrary, a huge self-conceit still hold possession of him, and he straightens up to the assertion of his old and valueless self; or if he sink discouraged upon the threshold of a life of fierce competitions and more manly emulations, he might as well be a dead man. The world has no use for such a man, and he has only to retire, or submit be trodden upon.

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When a young man has thoroughly comprehended the fact that he knows nothing, and that, intrinsically, he is of but little value, the next thing for him to learn is that the world cares nothing for him ;-that he is the subject of no man's overwhelming admiration and esteem; that he must take care of himself. letter of introduction may possibly procure him an invitation to tea, and nothing more. If he be a stranger, he will find every man busy with his own affairs, and none to look after him. He will not be noticed until he becomes noticeable, and he will not become noticeable until he does something to prove that he has an absolute value in society. No letter of recommendation will give him this, or ought to give him this.

Society demands that a young man shall be somebody, not only, but that he shall prove his right to the title; and it has a right to demand this. Society will not take this matter upon trust—at least, not for a long time, for it has been cheated too frequently. Society is not very particular what a man does, so that it prove him to be a man: then it will bow to him, and make room for him. I know a young man who

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